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Early Signs to Watch for in Teams Struggling with Trust

3 min readMay 2, 2025

Trust issues rarely announce themselves with a dramatic outburst or formal complaint. In most organizations, the early signs of a trust breakdown are subtle, behavioral, and easily misinterpreted as performance problems or personality conflicts. But when you know what to look for, the patterns become unmistakable.

Here are some of the earliest red flags:

Silence Where There Should Be Engagement

  • People stop contributing ideas in meetings
  • Brainstorming turns into blank stares or surface-level comments
  • Employees hold back thoughts they used to share freely

Trust thrives in psychological safety. When people go quiet, they’re not disengaged — they’re protecting themselves.

Defensive Or Over-Reactive Responses To Feedback

  • A simple suggestion triggers disproportionate emotion
  • Employees interpret feedback as personal attacks
  • Team members “shut down” or over-explain everything

Unhealed betrayal sensitizes the nervous system. Feedback begins to feel like a threat, not support.

Withholding, Micromanaging, Or “Shadow” Work

  • People hoard information instead of collaborating
  • Leaders micromanage because they can’t…

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Dr. Debi Silber
Dr. Debi Silber

Written by Dr. Debi Silber

Dr. Debi Silber, founder of The PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute https://pbtinstitute.com helps people heal from the trauma of betrayal.

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