Dr. Debi Silber
4 min readJun 12, 2024

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How to Navigate Social Events After Betrayal

Experiencing betrayal is one of the most painful human experiences. The journey to recovery can be challenging, often affecting every aspect of life, including social events. In this blog post, we’ll dive into the complexities of handling various social gatherings after experiencing betrayal, whether it’s a wedding, a backyard party, or any significant occasion. We’ll discuss strategies for those who have been betrayed, focusing on maintaining composure, protecting yourself emotionally, and celebrating the strength it takes to attend these events.

Reflecting On A Recent Wedding Experience

Attending social events post-betrayal can be particularly challenging. Recently, I had the opportunity to go to a dear friend’s wedding. It reminded me that attending events like that one can be so hard when we’re working through a painful experience. Navigating these types of events requires careful preparation and a mindful approach which is what we’re diving into now.

Pre-Event Preparation

Envision a Positive Outcome: Mental preparation is crucial. Before attending the event, take some time to visualize the event going smoothly. Imagine yourself engaging in pleasant conversations, enjoying the surroundings, and feeling at ease.

Energetic Protection: Protecting yourself energetically can help block negativity. Techniques such as imagining a protective bubble around yourself can be effective. This bubble serves as a barrier, keeping…

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Dr. Debi Silber

Dr. Debi Silber, founder of The PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute https://pbtinstitute.com helps people heal from the trauma of betrayal.