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Why Betrayal Drains Your Energy: Understanding Fatigue and How to Recharge

Dr. Debi Silber

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Betrayal is a profound and often traumatic experience that not only affects our emotional well-being but can also have significant impacts on our physical health. People who have been betrayed commonly feel drained, exhausted, and unable to muster the energy they once had. This post explores the connection between betrayal and fatigue, diving into the physical symptoms that accompany emotional trauma and offering actionable tips for recovery.

1. The Stress Response: Why Betrayal Feels Like A Physical Threat

When we experience betrayal, especially by someone close to us, our bodies react in a similar way as if we were facing a physical threat. This response is often referred to as the “fight-or-flight” response, where our bodies release stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline to prepare for danger. While this reaction can be helpful in immediate threats, betrayal is an experience that lasts for some time, causing stress hormones to remain elevated over time.

Chronic exposure to these stress hormones can lead to fatigue and dysfunction of our adrenals. This happens when your adrenal glands, responsible for managing stress, become overworked and eventually less effective. The result? Persistent fatigue, a weakened immune system, a greater susceptibility to illness, and an overall drained and depleted feeling. Recognizing this is key to understanding why you might feel physically tired after…

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